Time: Evening, May 9, 2012

I’m sure you’ve noticed and I realize that many of my posts are about relationships. It is because I realize that life is about relationships. We are all having “One Big Relationship” with each other. What you think and do, affects me and I, you. How about that?!

Well, I’ve been working through some thoughts and feelings about dating and it’s path to marriage. While many take a haphazard approach to dating, I believe dating is just as serious as planning your career. It is a part of your “family planning”. Yeah, although some front as if they are just having fun, yet, really and truly, everyone is looking for “that one” to catch their attention and capture their  hearts.  And if…through the process of dating, your goal is to meet your husband or wife,  “dating is a serious matter”. You may not acknowledge this fact, but ultimately you are in search of a “partner for life”. Even the playa-playa and the wanna be, act-like-a-man woman who sleeps around and uses her goods to get what she wants, is looking for love. Face it, love is at the core of our being. It is what we seek from others and it completes us. Unfortunately, we have to sort through the layers of mental and spiritual calluses to get to the soft inner being that is light and love. It’s ok though, because we have all been through something and the calluses protect; they are filters, padding and protection from pain.

Today, the most important question on the subject popped up in my mind, “Can I Submit Unto You”. Men love the concept of “submission”,  women tend to turn their noses up to it. But, I think that any woman who is able to go deeper than her thoughts and misconceptions about submitting, will find that she deeply wants to find someone who she can submit to.  She will want to submit…to the right person, because he will be worthy. Continue reading “TERMS OF SUBMISSION”


I’ve often wondered if Freedom had a heart, what it would say. What would it desire? What would it do? I’m speaking of Freedom as Spirit rather than flesh because it is our Spirit that experiences bondage and yearns to be free, not our flesh. It is the Spirit of man that suffers. Without the Spirit, the flesh is dead.

I prefer to imagine that “Freedom” desires spiritual autonomy and independence; the ability and the liberty to freely express self and the will of the Creator without consequence.

  • The power to co-create freely according to the unction of the Spirit
  • The power to manifest according to Its will, which is the will of God
  • The power to love whomever It pleases without shame and doubt
  • The power to “Be” as It feels, as It imagines and dreams
  • To commune where and with whom It needs to for nurturance of Its soul

I imagine Freedom to be able to be a part of this world and be able to travel ANY place in this universe to fulfill Its purpose; gathering information and an understanding of the breadth of life and existence, of God. I, like many of you desire this Freedom of spiritual expression and power. But, I still experience the bondage of the flesh; the bondage of fear. We all struggle with how to overcome this bondage that we see, feel and experience every day that we take a breath through the flesh.  How do we transcend this fearful existence? How can the Spirit have the freedom to work and manifest while in the flesh? Continue reading “FREEDOM’S HEART”